I like to kiss and be kissed, touch and be touched. I don't consider myself depraved or loose or slutty. But maybe some people do.

I do what I do, thinking I'm not doing myself or anyone any real wrong, especially not in the long run... that we're "consenting adults," doing what's in the best interests of all involved. I'm always looking for mutually beneficial situations; things work out best when each person only wants as much or as little as the other. I'm finally realizing (why did it take so long??) that most of the time, I don't really know what the other person is thinking or wants out of me or the situation. I should not assume people are on the same page as I am. Even when they indicate that they are, don't trust them. When I don't know what's really going on in the other person's mind, it's not safe... for me or for them. I might end up doing someone wrong. And I don't want to do that. I don't ever intend to hurt myself or anyone... unless they've done me wrong first. KNOW THAT. I am defensive, not offensive.

I am going to change a few things.